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msßñlu fmkaùug f.dia blaukska ureuqj je,|.kafka wehs@

ldka;djkaf.a wdhq ld,jg jvd msßñkaf.a wdhqI ld,h wvqù we;s nj o;a; j,ska fmkS hhs'


fõokdjg fyda yeäug fkdyelsj ;o is;a we;sj Ôj;a ùfuka msßñka Èhjeähdj" wêl reêr mSvkh fukau jeä jYfhka yoDhdndO j,g f.dÿre ùfï wjOdku jeäh'

.eyeKqkag jvd msßñka w;r yoDhdndO jeäùug fya;=jla jkafka l÷,la weig meñK úg mjd fkdyvd ord f.k isáu
ksid úh yelsh' fuf,i ‘‘Yla;su;a msßñka wඬkafka ke;’’ hk iudc Ndú;h ;=,ska úYd, úfhdajla we;s jq úg mjd msßñka

fndfyda úg l÷¨ fkdi,d isáfï iïNdú;dj jeäh' fï ksid we;eï msßñka úfhda ÿl ke;s lr .ekSug u;ameka mdúÉÑhg weíneys ù C%ufhka ldhslj yd udkislj úkdYhg ,la ùfï wjOdku jeäh'

ksjfia ;u ujf.a woyia j,g uq,a ;ek we;s ksjil we;s oeeä jk msßñ orejka ìß|f.a woyia j,g ijka fokafkl= njg m;a ùug bv we;' ldka;d woyia Woyia j,g .re lrk mßirhl yefok jefvk msßñhd jev lrk ia:dkfha ldka;djkaf.a woyia j,g .re lsßug fm<fUhs'

tfiau ;u mshd úiska ;u ujg isÿ lrk .Dyia: ysxik w;aoel we;a;l= újdyhg m;a jq miq ;u ìß|g wdorh yd f.!rjh olajkfka flfiaoehs fkdoek jeäúhg t<fò' fuf,i l=vd ld,fha isÿ jk ysxik udkisl mSvd yd ,sx.sl w;jr fya;=fjka msßñ orejka jeä úhg m;a jq miq iudch ;=, ksis mßÈ wkql,kh ùug ndOd we;s lrhs' we;eï .Dyia; ysxik ksid ;u ujf.a urKh mjd ÿgq msßñ orejka iudch ;=, we;s oeä jkafka fldamfhka iy ffjrfhks'

tfiau îu;aj meñK ujg ;ändk mshjrekaf.ka uj fírd .ekSug bÈßm;a jk msßñ orejka ;ud mshdg myr § <ud wmrdOlrejka njg m;aj /q|jqï l|jqre j, mqkre;a:dmkhg hjk wjia:d wkka;j;a mqj;am;a j,ska wm oeel we;'

fï ish¨ isÿùï j,ska ikd: lrkafka .Dyia; ysxik fyda <ud l, orejka ú¢kd w;jr ksid" jeäúhg m;a jq miqo tajdfha m‍%;súmdl ú¢ug Tjqkag isÿ jk njhs' tfiau ysxidjg m;ajqjka wkd.;fha wka wh flfrys ysxidldÍ úugo bv we;'

l=vd úfhaÈ ks;ru ;u mshdf.ka .=á neg lE msßñ orefjl= we;s oeeä jq úg ;u orejka iuÛ b;d blaukska fldamjk l,yldß msfhla njg m;aùug we;s wjOdku jeäh' ‘‘wmamd l, foa mq;d fkdfldf,d;a fkdÜáf.a mq;d’’ hkqfjka .ï j, we;s m‍%ia:d msre,la ke;fyd;a jHjydrhla we;' fujka jHjydrhkaf.kao ikd: lrkafka msßñ orejka ;u mshdf.a yeisßï rgdj wkq.ukh lsßug bv we;s njhs' tfiau ;u mshd úiska ujg myr fok mjq,l we;s oeeä jk orejka ìß| yd ieñhd w;r mj;sk wfkHdakH mqoa., iïnkaO;djfha .=Kd;aul Ndjh iy fid÷reNdjh fkdoek .kshs'

‘‘msßñfhla jqkdu fldkao mk ;sfhkak ´k’’ ‘‘.E”f.a lg yod .kak ñksyd oek .kak ´kE’’‘‘;ukaf.a .Ekskaghs orejkaghs lkak fokak neß tld msßñfhlao@’’ hkdÈ iudcfha uq,a nei .;a msßñkag wys;lr u;s u;dka;r Tn úiska wid we;=jdg iel ke;' fujka taldlD;ska ksid msßñkag jk ydksh msßñka úiska mjd y÷kd f.k ke;'

;u orejkag ìß|g lEu îu iemhSug uqo,a fkdue;slfï ,eÊcdfjka yd ;ud jrola lr we; is;=ú,a, msßñkaf.a ishÈú ydks lr .ekSï j,g uq,sl jk fya;=ka .Kkdjka w;r tla fya;=jls' fmdf<dkakrefõ f.dúka ;u l=Uqre md¨ úfuka Kh f.jd .eksug fkdyelsj iy wUqorejkag uqyqK §ug fkdyelsj ish Èú ydks lr .ekSï lr .;a wdldrh ÿgqfõo@

mshd hkq yqÿ wd¾:sl iemhqï lrejl=g jvd uj iu. tlaj fifkyi mEfï yd ú| .ekSfï Nqñldfõ isákakl= ùfï jeo.;alu .ek ,xldfõ mjq,a jgyd .;fyd;a msßñka iy .eyeKqka hk fofldgigu Ôú;h iufia ú¢h yels jkq we;' fï ksid .eyeKsh iy msßñhd hk fofokdgu ksjfia jev m, j,g yjq,a ùug yels jk w;r iy ldka;djgo /lshd lsßug yels ùfuka ;ks mqoa.,fhl= u; megfjk wd¾:sl j.lSu ,sys,a jkq we;' tfiau ldka;djka ksjig fldgq fkdú wd¾:sl Yla;su;aNdjh ,nd .ekSugo yels jkq we;' msßñkao ldka;djkaf.a .Dyia; ld¾HNdrhg Wr fok m‍%udKh jeä jkq we;'


.Dyia: ysxik mk; lr,shg meñKsug fmr hï Èfkl .Dyia: ysxikh .ek meñKs,s lsßug .sh ldka;djla fmd,sishg f.dia ;udf.a ieñhd úiska myr ÿka nj lshd isáhdh' fuysÈ fmd,sish úiska .eyeKshf.a meñKs,a, ,shd .ekSug ue,slula oeelajqfha ‘‘;ukaf.a ñksyd .ykafka ke;s kï w,a,mq f.or ñksyd .ykjdo@’’ hkqfjka wiñks'

fujka woyia fukau msßñlu fmkaùug kï .eyeKsh ks;ru wdKavq uÜgq l, hq;=h" .eyeKqkaf.a lg md,kh l, hq;=h ’’ hk jerÈ wdld,am iudch ;=, we;s ùfuka msßñka ldka;dj flfrys ysxidldß wdl,am iy yeisßï rgd we;s lr .ekSug uÛ mdohs' fujka ksfYaOkd;aul wdl,am msßñka ysxidldß yeisßï j,g ;=vq fok neúka .eyeKqka iy msßñka yeisßh hq;af;a flfiao hkak ms<sn| we;s ksfYaOkd;aul taldlD;ska uÛ yerùug uq¨ uy;a iudch úiska C%shd;aul úh hq;af;ah'

tfiau msßñka fj; wdC%uKYS,s;ajh iy ysxildß nj wdfrdamKh lrk ;=jlal=" msiaf;da, wdÈ fi,a,ï nvq §u .eko fouõmshka wjOdkh fhduq l, hq;=h'tfiau .eyeKq orejkag ye,s j,x iy fndakslalka § weh .Dysh ld¾hfha .;s ,laIK wdfrdamKh lsßug ork fjr wju fldg wehg idïm‍%odhsl fkdjk fi,a,ï nvqo ,nd § wehf.a ndysr f,dalh iqúi,a lsßug fouõmshka W;aiql úh hq;=h' fï ;=,ska msßñka iy .eyeKqka iudch úiska ks¾ñ; taldlD;sl wdl,am j,ska ñÈ ksoyia mqrjeishka f,i iudcdkqfhdackh úug bv i,ihss'

tfiau msßñfhl= jqkdu fyd| fldkaola ;sìh hq;=h hk u;h msßñ udkisl;ajh ;=, ksfYaOkd;aul f,i n,mEï lrhs' ;udf.a fldkao mk ;sfhk nj fmkaùug hEfuka rKavq irej,a j,g meg,S msßñka urKhg m;a ùu" nia ßfha fyda ÿïßfhaa mdmqrefõ .uka lsßfuka wk;=re j,g m;aùu iy ;u msßñ úC%uhka fmkaùug f.dia blaukska ureuqj je,|.;a msßñka fldmuKo hkak fuu ,smsh lshjk Tng f;areï hkq fkdwkqudkhs'

jeämqr hqoaO iy .egqï j,ska ñh hkafkao" ßh wk;=re j,ska" îu;a lñka" ÿï îfuka ñh hkafka msßñkah' fuf,i msßñ orejka fkdi,ld yeßu wdÈh wju fldg" wfkla msßñkaf.ka iy iudcfhka orejkag tfrysj isÿ jk ,sx.sl w;jr j,g f.dÿre ùï je,elaùug ksfjia uÜgfï§;a" m‍%cd uÜgfï§ lghq;= lsßu b;d jeo.;a fõ'

fï i|yd mdi,a" <ud /ljrK wdh;k" jD;a;Sh mqyqKq wdh;k" <ud iq/ql=ï ksjdi" ;reK úfha jerÈlrejka r|jd ;nd .kakd wdh;k" ù:sj, Ôj;ajk ksjia wysñ <uhska hk ish¨ fldgia j,g wjOdkh fhduq l, hq;af;ah'

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